Shut up already, You're making us look bad!

So here is a picture of an adult with a rattle who is of course crying. Tears of blood! While it rains drops of blood! Muhahaha! No I'm kidding there is a point to all of this.

I belong to a few mental health support groups online and I have to say sometimes I get so pissed off with these people I just want to smack 'em. They cry, they whine, they complain. You never hear of them talking of bettering themselves. But this, this was inspired by a special post. Now I'm not usually one to discus other peoples business so I will leave the "sayer" and the group out of it.

Basically this particular Borderline statement, "
I want to be loved and accepted unconditionally. It seems like the theme of this thread. I'm tired of people telling me I have to give it to myself to get it. When they probably had loving and nurturing people raise them to get it. Thus is was self ingrained in them."

Really? You had it that bad? Guess what asshole. So did everyother person in that group. But you don't hear the majority of us whinning we're geared more towards recovery and acceptance. Our own recovery and acceptance, not sitting around like some sort of asshole waiting to be rescued like a damzel in distress. You DO have to do it for YOURSELF.

It just astounds me. How the hell do you expect to "get better" if you are taking zero resboncibiliy? I mean you and you alone have to do the work. There is no one to hold your hand through real life. So toughen the fuck up or shut the fuck up. You're making the rest of us look bad.

A much cheerier birthday post to come later!